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I don't mean to be negative. "If you can't say something nice........." But it really strikes a nerve when I see someone say the men wouldn't talk to her. That's bull. I wasn't there. But I don't believe her.

I'm short on time. I didn't read the whole thing or watch the video. The thing that caught my attention and makes me respond is the part about her getting the silent treatment from the men (ALL her co workers) and them refusing to teach her anything.

I didn't read the part about how she thinks women are better meat cutters. Could be interesting to see why she feels that way. We have 1 woman and about 15 men and she IS one of the best (all around everything considered). She fits in very well and we all like her. It's only customers who sometimes out of ignorance disrespect her.

 

The thing is, I don't believe that Kari was treated the way she claims. Unless there was a good reason. It says that she was a wrapper before becoming a cutter. She must have been hard to work with and/or lazy. There HAD to be a problem. They knew her from before. It's not like on the first day, they wouldn't speak to her. The late 1980's wasn't that long ago. Not for this 50 year old. I lived and worked that era and I don't think it would happen that way. I just have more faith in the goodness of people to believe a decent person would be treated that way. I can believe they suggested she try the deli instead. But once she was there, they'd treat her nice. Maybe she wanted to start cutting short loins her first day and was told to cut liver and she refused???? Something like that. Everyone should understand that you have to follow orders and may be told to do jobs you don't want to do. There is a very important detail left out of her story. What, I don't know.

 

It has been said that (I don't know who said it first) "if you can't do it, you teach it, and if you can't teach it, you teach the teachers." I wonder if that's what she's doing.



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I trained the first 2 women meat cutters that A&P had in Atlanta in 1976, like you said, most guys didn't like it and got real hot about it after they were trained and they made them Cutting Room Managers by busting the men that was running them. Most of the up roar came because of their seniority which run from about 5 to 10 years, the men they replace had seniority of 15 to 20 years. There were other factors also, at that time in our trade women weren't look at nothing more than a wrapper, lunch meat girl, many were used to grind, cube steaks, tray chicken and beef, pork and cut up stew meat.  I knew women back in those days that could have made a great meat cutter but it was not something management wanted to do. I have seen and heard the things said to them about " crossing over " to a man's job.

 

A&P had 6 trained , two of them gave it up after a few months, these two were sent to a rough part of Atlanta. White women over black men, it didn't work well. Their was also a lot of rumors that the Union didn't stand behind these ladies like they should have, might have been the seniority issue they caught a lot of hell about. Which this was a federal mandate order and I don't think the Union could have buck it anyway. One lasted about a year and half, two more lasted close to 5 years, when I left there in 85 the last one was in line to become their first lady DM, she was one of the two I trained. The other one was one of those that lasted about 5 years, but she had man problems and moved to Fla., Never heard anything from her after she left.

Case in point, about 16 years ago when I was with Ingles Foods, I had a wrapper that I taught to cut, I told her to put in writing a app for a meat cutter position we had open at the time, she was denied base on the reason a woman couldn't lift more than 60 lbs, I told her to keep her paper work and not throw it away. After she was turn down, my DM at the time told me NEVER let her get on the saw, she can cube or grind BUT no saw. One day when he was there she came in with a whole ham, turned on the saw and cut it up, when she turned the saw off, She looked at him and said, O **** I'm not suppose to be on the saw because I'm a woman and don't know what i'm doing and walked out, he never open his mouth about it any more BUT did try to transfer her to the deli, but he never got her into it. A few years later when Ingles went into Atlanta, Ga. I made the remark to two supervisors that Ingles wouldn't last 6 months in Atlanta without a law suit about the way they treated women, Three months later they had the suit on them from meat wrappers and cashiers, I told my wrapper to sent her paper work to the lawyers that was handling the case, When Ingles settled with them, she got a check for 31,000 dollars. Went to Food Lion and was hire in as a meat cutter.  I heard years later she made market manager in that same store.


 

My self I've known of Kari for about three years, talked with her for about a year. I have followed her in a lot she has done, I will say this, I respect her for what I know she has done and respect her a hell of a lot for her stance on Put the labor back into our markets and sale meat. I respect her for being one of us and trying to bring about some change in our trade. As for the women are better cutters, most I've seen do take more time than we men do with making the product look better, BUT we got good and bad cutters on both sides

 

 

It made me laugh when I read the part about going to the meat cooler, that was where we handled our problems, in those days crap didn't go to the front, it was handled in the market. IF a problem couldn't be resolved in the cooler or at the coffee pot then and only then was a union rep called to come take care of the problem.


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A Female Butcher On Beef, Death Threats, And Why Women Are Better At The Job

Kari Underly grew up in a family of butchers,

 

But that didn’t make it any easier for her when she decided to get into the business. Her grandparents ran a butcher shop, and her dad had one, too, though it closed as supermarkets started to dominate the grocery business. By the time Underly decided to try her hand at butchery, it was an act of desperation: She needed a job in order to pay for college. The all-male butcher crew at her first job gave her the silent treatment, and one coworker even threw a knife at her. But Underley stuck with it, and eventually she moved out of the meat locker and into the corporate side of the meat industry, helping to develop and promote new cuts of meat including the Denver cut and the flatiron steak. Wiley published her book “The Art of Beef Cutting” last year. Underly is now a consultant, but she keeps her knife skills fresh; check out this aweomse video in which she breaks down an entire side of beef. She spoke with me recently about why she thinks women make the best butchers, how butchers became cool, and the incredibly satisfying story of how she got revenge on that knife-throwing colleague back in the meat cooler.

How did you first get interested in becoming a butcher? Was it just because of your family history?

Survival. It was honestly just that. I started college, but I ran out of money two years into it. … So I was working in a grocery store in South Bend, Indiana, as a stocker and wrapper. The meat cutters were making $2 to $4 more an hour, and that was significant. I said, “I want to do that!”

You weren’t exactly welcomed by the guys in the meat department.

When I said I wanted to do it they looked at me like I was crazy. They suggested I work in the deli, or in the office, but those jobs didn’t pay as much. This was in the late 80s. When I did become apprenticed, guys would refuse to teach me. I would walk into the meat room and no one would acknowledge me. You’re a young woman just trying to do a good job and put your way through college, so that was tough.

I read that one of them actually threw a knife at you?

I don’t even remember why he was so upset. There’s this thing when you’re in the meat shop and you have a problem, you go into the cooler. That’s where the shouting matches happen. So I went in and turned around [getting ready to have it out], and he threw a knife right at me. It sliced into a box. He was comfortable with his accuracy, but still…

Did you tell anyone at the time?

I was afraid to! What if he didn’t miss the next time? And his direct report wasn’t a huge fan of mine either. You know, I grew up with Wonder Woman and the Bionic Woman as my mentors. I didn’t know! I thought that lasso was real! Long story short, they put me in the smallest volume store, because a girl couldn’t handle a larger store. I worked my way through college, through the store, ended up on the corporate side, and became all of their bosses.

Have things changed in the years you’ve been in the industry?

Recently I was in a plant in Pennsylvania — in a packing house, which is where most of the jobs are now. There are some grocery stores jobs, but the majority are in packing houses. And half of the people on the floor were women! You haven’t seen that before. And it’s fun because now I get to teach them. I feel like I helped blaze the trail for some of these folks, because it’s not so rough and tough now. And women are stronger than they were years ago, too. They’re not afraid to get in there and work.

It seems like butchery has also gotten this cool cred within the last few years. The New York Times compares butchers to rock stars, and it seems like the small butcher shop is on its way back.

Where did that come from?

I think if you talk to some of the hard core old butchers about that, they laugh. It’s just their livelihood. What I think happened is the economy. Chefs had to get creative about getting food costs down. One way to do that is to buy the whole animal, but then you have to use it all, and to do that you need skills. So that has helped to bring the art of butchery to the forefront … and also people are looking to make different decisions about food. They want to buy local, which also means meat, so they have to be able to get the meat locally. That’s been helping to spur on these new butcher shops. I’m ok with the celebrity component. For one, we need jobs. And second, I like the idea of the having the small local shop on the corner, and you can talk to that person — he or she.

Do you think women make better butchers than men?

I do. It’s about detail, nurturing, and grounding. Men tend to — there are some very good men butchers — but women have more finesse, makes sure it looks pretty, with more nurturing care. Guys are more about production: How much can I get done? It’s about might vs. finesse.



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when I began my training I also caught a lot of crap from some of the guys, I over came it.  I love cutting meat but it isn't something I wouldn't care to go through again.  Learning to be a meat cutter was special to me, but the remarks and the actions of some can really hurt. when I cut meat I to try to take time to make it look good. I guess us ladies like eye appeal better than man unless it's a woman lol

on second thought I guess I would, it's been good to me and my family



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KY LADY CUTTER wrote:

when I began my training I also caught a lot of crap from some of the guys, I over came it.  I love cutting meat but it isn't something I wouldn't care to go through again.  Learning to be a meat cutter was special to me, but the remarks and the actions of some can really hurt. when I cut meat I to try to take time to make it look good. I guess us ladies like eye appeal better than man unless it's a woman lol

on second thought I guess I would, it's been good to me and my family



-- Edited by KY LADY CUTTER on Tuesday 15th of May 2012 05:27:44 PM


 Hey thats not true. I really care about eye appeal and I was trained that way by a man and I have worked with a couple females who boost that they have been meat cutters for 15 years or whatever and they still put out some really sloppy looking cuts. 

but for the rest of this article I believe that even in the late 80s it was  a struggle for females to get into the meat industry as meat cutters and butchers.  I think all stores and shops are different . It depends on what kind of person is in charge there. Some bosses may not tolerate the sex discrimination and some might encourage it. I know of one woman who started working in a processing center in the early 80s because she was  a single mother and was trying to support her family. she didn't go into it because she wanted to make a statement.  I have a reason to believe it was really hard on her emotionally and because of it she can be a real hard ass to work with  now.   in any shop I believe that the rest of the workers will look to their leader for cues on how to handle a change in environment.  If the leader/supervisor welcomes this change and encourages the workers to embrace it and not fear it than the subject/female involved in the change will have a positive experience.   but if the leader/supervisor doesn't like the change because he is arrogant of feels threatened by it his workers will follow that cue and make it a point to give that female a negative experience.    thats why you will see so many different stories.  Some are good experiences and some are bad. It all comes back to who was incharge at the time and the place and how that person handled the situation.  thats my opinion.  So i can completely buy Kari's story about the men not talking to her.

Now some of you may think "Not me I don't care what my boss wanted I can think for myself"  I believe you.  My point is if the supervisor is ignorant and encourages that sort of behavior is likely to recruit people who share that way of thinking.  Also he may have a crew of younger immature men who look up to him and are easily impressed with him. 



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If cooler walls could talk-


Since I can remember the cooler was where straight talk took place-however, when woman started being in the dept as cutters or managers, the brass would NOT give straight talk to a woman as they would a man-in fact, they would often overlook things that they would bounce a guy around the store for.

From store managers to meat supervisors, to dm's to vp's they would all use the cooler for straight talk-even let loose if they wanted to swear. Which was ok for the most part-you REALLY had to worry when they said "meat me in the store managers office" or you WILL be joining us for lunch-then you knew something earth shattering was going to happen

I still use the cooler with meat managers and cutters-

Let's face it, I dont care what a hard ass man you are, most of us have a soft spot for woman, not being sexist, it's more a protection mechanism,


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KY LADY CUTTER wrote:

when I began my training I also caught a lot of crap from some of the guys, I over came it.  I love cutting meat but it isn't something I wouldn't care to go through again.  Learning to be a meat cutter was special to me, but the remarks and the actions of some can really hurt. when I cut meat I to try to take time to make it look good. I guess us ladies like eye appeal better than man unless it's a woman lol

on second thought I guess I would, it's been good to me and my family

I like working with woman- guys are very very competitive- I cant imagine in this day and age-men being sexist pigs

Early on, when woman just started training for cutters, I made the extra effort to train  and NOT allow any head games from the other cutters-I remember taking a few cutters in the cooler  for some straight talk- a couple cutters were being pigs and it wasnt fair for the lady

Also I made sure the  I didnt appease standards for her own good- having trained many female cutters thru the years and now meat managers, I enjoy working with them, have respect where respect is due

   I walked in one department a few years ago and this guys was screaming at a lady and she was choking up- I told him to leave for the day,  and call in to see if he had a job tomorrow(the language he was using she could have sue'd the store)

 

 



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Sometimes, but not always, I'm not sure if/when a lady has to "take crap", it's because she's a lady. I'm a man and I've had to take crap too. It's called life. There's a lot of jerks out there in every line of work. When it happens, it's not because you're _____ or ______. It's because sometimes life isn't always fun.

Who here has not "taken crap" or "caught crap", got picked on, dumped on? Whatever term you want to use.

I addressed this issue in another thread.

 



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Leon when I was working Atlanta I knew a couple of these ladies you talking about. both were good cutters, one named anna was at the west end store, that market was hard enough on us white guys much less a woman. when I was there I think it was  19 blacks and me, anna and one other white guy. Anna took a lot of heat for being there in a mans role. she endured a lot of verbal abuse, a lot of it sexual. I heard once she went into the chicken cooler and they bared the door on her, she was in there over a hour. But she staid there till they moved her to old national road, two cutters there staid on her till she quit a few months later.



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I had to settle a problem once in the cooler, we both came out bloody but the problem was over.



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When I was attending school I worked part time in one of the corporate stores. Learned how the auto wrapper worked, stocked shelves, took out their garbage and cardboard. I was hired to go to school, learn the trade, manage one of their stores in the future. After months of taking out their garbage I spoke to my contact at their head office and told him that I was put into the stores to train to cut to their standards and all I was doing was taking out their garbage wasting my time and their money. There was a kid going to school with me that worked in produce at that store and he told me the guys had said to him that I had to prove myself before they would let me pick up a knife. I would understand this if I was a young kid hired off the street but the circumstances were much different. This was last year Jan to April. That store did not have a manager at that time and the person running the meat department was not much of a manager. I can understand how they all felt having this girl hired for management but then again I did not see any of them asking to go into management, they could not be bothered with the hassle. School ended in april and they needed people at another location so away I went. New store had a manager and a retired part time guy so needless to say they threw me in showed me what I needed to know and left me alone to close the place by myself as there were no other options if they wanted days off. I know how it feels to not be given a chance but not all guys are like that. Thanks to Jeff the old manager at my store I now manage the third highest grossing store in the city. There are good and bad and insecure people out there. I understand how the other guys felt but never let it get me down. I even had an assistant manager tell me that " you will never be a manager the job is too hard and you are a girl" They offered me the manager position instead of him and I became his boss. He went back to school and now works for me part time. Believe in yourself and ignore what others say. They have issues that really dont involve you but you are the target.

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I have to admit that in my 28 years in the business I never met or worked with a female cutter!  About the time I decided to leave the business my company did promote a female meat wrapper to manager. This was at a time when the company had eliminated all store cut meats so a meat mgrs duty was mainly ordering and being responsible for the case with an occasional service grind, slice a filet, or shell (NY Strip).  Also at that time very few journeyman were interested in meat manager any more.  Chief Journeyman (Meat Mgr) paid only $28/week more and came with all the grief.  Typically the only people who applied were newbies with no seniority who knew it was their only chance to make full time so the company wasd happy to have this very competent woman as Meat Mgr. BTW the pre-cut meat turned out to be a great mistake and the company wisely reversed course on that.

I sometimes wonder why I did it, certainly not for the money so I guess it was pride and challenge. 

I would have been happy to train a woman but I agree with the original post that many in our trade back then were sexist.

As to taking "crap" I agree with Burgermeister and think we all did on the way up. As an apprentice, I was told I was "whale sh**" the lowest of the low. As a hotshot young cutter I had a 12" steak knife pressed to my ribs and told to slow down as I was making the crew look bad.  I had many a shouting match in the cooler where I was the recipient. Some times people were bloodied, bones broken in the cooler. It's just the way it was back then but much better now I suppose.  It's a tough business but many women are tough and I'm sure make great cutters. I wish I had worked with some.



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I don't know any female butchers,but I get a lot of customers saying that they used to work in the trade
Then Of course I have to ask why they left, the usual answer is that it was too hard.

Hard as nails, us butchers.

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